How to Get a Guy Interested

Published: 22nd July 2008
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How do you go about getting a guy? Well first off you have to get their attention right? Why is it that some girls (who don't seem too special) always seem to have some hunk hanging around. Let's take it one step further. How do we get them to pursue you? or How do you get them to propose? One things for sure, if that's what goes through your mind when you meet someone you like, you will most often scare them off.

The first thing is you need to like yourself. Confidence is the key. This may sound a little cosmic, but be yourself. Don't worry about getting a partner. It will happen. Being single can be a lot of fun. Be comfortable with yourself and don't put too much importance on how to get a guy to like you. Do you really want a man to chase you if you have to pretend to be something you are not? The likelihood is you will not be able to keep up any pretense for long. Be elusive but fun and friendly. Don't always be instantly available when asked on a date when you start courting. The only types of guys intimidated by secure, independent women are insecure themselves. This is hardly the type of man you want to attract. Is it?

If the guy that holds your interest hasn't noticed you yet, take the initiative and strike up a conversation. Otherwise, how can he know you are around? Ask him about himself - his likes, dislikes, how he sees life, what he wants to do - let him know about you too. You might have to be a little brave, but hey, what's there to really lose? Nothing - right?

If you are interested in a guy, have patience. Forget about rushing things along, because this normally ruins everything and could give him cold feet. If they don't return your call, don't get obsessive and continually call back. Give them some space. Don't force yourself onto the person you are attracted to; Let things flow along at its given pace. If he wasn't the right man, there will be others. If you have to learn to be OK with that.

Tips on How to get a Guy to Notice You

Men and women are as fickle as the weather and there is no guaranteed way to get a guy, but here are a few tips that may help:

- Be a nice person. While this may intimidate some men, who can resist someone who is funny, kind and self-motivated? If being who you are doesn't attract the right guy for you straight away don't worry. The right guy will come along eventually.

- Start off being friends with someone and see what develops between you. Once in awhile it turns out that you better suited as friends and comes from getting to know each other a little better.

- Remember, you can not change the chemistry between you. If he shows no interest, move on. It's really no big deal. You will meet someone else along the track. You can only be who you are, but you can not change how a guy thinks or feels. Put yourself in their shoes. Have you ever had a guy show interest in you that you just weren't interested in? How did you feel?

- Whatever you do, don't talk about other guys you are interested in when you are out with someone else. This is an instant way to lose his interest.

- sometimes the guy is actually interested but doesn't know how to show it or is shy and needs a little nudge. Have some patience without overwhelming him.

Now you have some things to think about - just enjoy your life as the amazing person you are and, if you meet someone you like, just let it happen naturally (with a little nudge).


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